8 Things Matchmakers Say You’re Doing Wrong While Dating
Are you wondering if the red flags are BIG enough reasons to break up? Are your friends and family concerned about the relationship? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then this post is for you. This could be the Holy Spirit leading you to break up. Today Sam Eaton will share 10 signs that you may be dating the wrong person. Share your thoughts and dating experiences in the comment section below!
It means if you have doubts about the relationship, if your significant other doesn’t treat you with the upmost respect, if you argue more than you get along, if you constantly find yourself defending him or her to your friends, then end it. I know that sounds harsh, but let me explain my theory on Christian dating.
One night, after a third highball, he gives you a glimpse into his heart. He tells you about his bitter divorce, a hyper-critical ex, a financial fiasco or a hurtful childhood. The courtship of an emotionally unavailable man can be baffling and deflating. A seemingly great guy pursues you. He calls you, he asks you out and he says and does things to pull you into a relationship.
He is courteous and attentive, and he wants to sleep with you. But when you give yourself to him—he withdraws his affection and his pursuit and you are bewildered by his sudden change of heart. Experts say that many emotionally unavailable people want a serious relationship but their emotional baggage prevents them from making an intimate connection. Some are untrusting; they fear rejection or they have a fear of being controlled. If you are dating a man with these behaviors, you need to cut and run: He comes on strong in the beginning, but after he gets your attention, or you sleep with him, he backs off with his affection, phone calls and pursuit.
He has poor relationships with women, his mother and daughter s. Or he still loves her. Either way—he still has strong feelings for ex, making him emotionally unsuitable for a relationship.